{"id":542,"date":"2011-05-31T23:34:00","date_gmt":"2011-05-31T23:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ecs.soton.ac.uk\/blogs\/mustansar_ghazanfar.php"},"modified":"2013-06-07T08:00:53","modified_gmt":"2013-06-07T08:00:53","slug":"1-june-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.soton.ac.uk\/studentblogs\/1-june-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s wrong with being a PhD Student?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Adam: Musi, we supposed to have a meeting yesterday?<br \/>\nMusi: I think, the meeting is scheduled to be every Wednesday?<br \/>\nAdam: It was Wednesday yesterday!<br \/>\nMusi: No, today is Wednesday!<br \/>\nAdam: Today is Thursday, go check your calendar!<br \/>\nMusi: (a bit embarrassed&#8230;..), Well &#8230; blah<br \/>\nAdam: It\u2019s ok, I understand you are a final year PhD&#8230;..!!!<\/p>\n<p>Well, this was the argument I had with my supervisor a couple of weeks back. Afterwards, I cried, Oh God, what&#8217;s wrong with being a PhD &#8230; lol. So you can probably imagine, what was going on with me &#8211; honestly, I was not able to focus on my studies, I lost motivation, and started wasting my time. After pondering the matter, I realized I had not taken a proper break from my studies for a long time (maybe one and a half years). So I went back to my homeland, Pakistan, for four weeks. It was very pleasant to meet the family members after a prolonged time. Luckily, we managed to fix the marriage ceremony of my elder brother, which took away all the strains I was suffering over the period in research. Furthermore, I visited Saudi Arabia and Dubai as well.<\/p>\n<p>When I came back, my supervisor, while having a meeting, asked: &#8216;Musi do you know what \u201cSubmission\u201d is?&#8217; I said, yes, it is a word meaning \u201cThe act of submitting\u201d. He replied, well done, now you understand what I am saying: \u201cSubmit your thesis now\u201d&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; What&#8230;&#8230;! (My thoughts: That\u2019s not very nice Adam. I always wonder why supervisors don\u2019t want to see a student happy; their behaviour always shows \u201cWhy you are looking happy? &#8230;.. lol).<\/p>\n<p>So this was the whole story -I am at the brink of the PhD now, which implies I have to burn midnight oil to reach the hallmark of success. I am deeply indebted to Dr Adam Prugel-Bennett and Szedm\u00e1k S\u00e1ndor, who gave me many ideas and without their help it would not have been possible to engender an excellent project. I really appreciate Dr Adam Prugel-Bennett for his assistance, proper guidance, sincerity, and always being there with valuable feedback that is putting flesh on the bones. Furthermore, I am very grateful for the prayers and love of my parents who have always been a source of inspiration and help for me. I am working on my final works now, and afterwards, I have to windup the work and start writing.<\/p>\n<p>I am going to Rome, Italy, at the end of June to present one of my published works in a conference, which demonstrates my qualities &#8211; (fanatical) passion for work, the zeal and zest of doing something novel, and quest to change and shape the world!<\/p>\n<p>Wishing everyone good luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Adam: Musi, we supposed to have a meeting yesterday? Musi: I think, the meeting is scheduled to be every Wednesday? Adam: It was Wednesday yesterday! Musi: No, today is Wednesday! Adam: Today is Thursday, go check your calendar! Musi: (a bit embarrassed&#8230;..), Well &#8230; blah Adam: It\u2019s ok, I understand you are a final year PhD&#8230;..!!! 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