It seems inevitable when settling down in a new town that you make comparisons between new home and the old.
There are some very obvious similarities between Southampton and Eindhoven. Each one is a town of around 200,000, of which about 10% are students. Each has two universities. TU/e, my employer, celebrates its 55th year in 2011, while the University of Southampton was celebrating 50 years when I started back in 2002.
I work at a beautifully-landscaped engineering-centric campus university, which is split in two by a river. I live in a country where everyone (pretty much) speaks English, and popular topics of conversation include the weather and train delays.
So what’s different?
Although I feel very at home here, and although the Netherlands isn’t hugely culturally different to the UK, it does mark a real change. Despite surface similarities such as the weather, the food, and use of English, it can and does feel very foreign. English is a second language; I don’t recognise items on supermarket shelves; I’m still learning about the public transport system.
Food and drink are an interesting area. I have encountered ‘karnemelk,’ which I innocently bought, assuming it to be some variety of standard milk – it is not. It is a strange buttermilk, very sour and not something you’d find in the UK. A Brit might use it for cooking, but they also drink it here! They drink their tea black (of course), and I have started to as well: it’s easier than trying to coax milk from bemused vendors. I am thrilled by the availability (and price) of olives, and even the most basic canteen at the university has a wonderful selection of breads, cheeses and hams.
There are still other things:
* I’m still astounded by how tiny the breakfast cereal selection is in large supermarkets. It’s perfectly adequate for my needs, but in the UK the cereals would easily get ten times the shelf space in a shop of that size.
* Some public toilets provide soap in powder form.
* Supermarket bags are very thin and impractical, though of course they sell heavy-duty ones you can reuse.
* It appears to be relatively normal for people to build their own homes in this country, although apparently the practice is more common in Belgium.
* People eat early here, at six or seven. (Edit: I mean eating out, here. People often book restaurants for 6pm, while in the UK I struggle to convince people to book earlier than 8pm.)
This week, I attended an induction for international employees. It was thoughtfully put together. Amongst other things, it included some work with Hofstede profiles. Interestingly, one of the biggest differences between the Dutch and UK profiles concerns communication: apparently, the Dutch tend to ‘low context communication’ – that is, being direct (or honest, or blunt – depending on which connotations you’d prefer). By contrast, we Brits are all about ‘high context communication’ – being indirect (or polite, or failing to say a damned thing – choose your connotations!).
Really, most of the people I’m working with are of other nationalities again (currently, most of my interactions are with some chaps from Belgium, Serbia and Greece), so I haven’t had intense contact with someone of Dutch origin… but it’s all helpful information.
I’m getting a lot from all of this. Living abroad makes me question assumptions I didn’t even know I had, from small preconceptions (surely a shopping basket can’t have wheels!) through to broader awareness of my own cultural context.
#1 by Sven Latham on February 3, 2011 - 10:46 pm
Found the local Albert Heijn by any chance?
If you can find a croquette they’re surprisingly tasty (they shouldn’t be – highly processed grey meat) with mustard in a roll.
#2 by clare on February 4, 2011 - 9:32 am
I did indeed waste very little time in finding the nearest Albert Heijn! Must admit I haven’t tried a croquette yet, they don’t *look* appealing… but perhaps I should open myself to a new cultural experience
#3 by Katherine on February 11, 2011 - 10:00 am
What time did you eat in the UK? I’d say 6 to 7 was actually on the late side since I’m always starving by 5pm! Also the supermarket bags here are increasingly thin and impractical so they can push the bags you have to pay for. We liked Albert Heijn too when we were in Amsterdam, we also went to a Dirk van den Broek which is a bit more downmarket like Kwik Save in the UK.
#4 by clare on February 15, 2011 - 10:08 am
Like you, I’m usually hungry by 5 or 6! I should clarify, I mean the usual time for a restaurant meal to begin is 6pm… whereas in the UK I struggle to convince friends to dine before 8. When you eat out for dinner in the UK, what sort of time do you go? Maybe I’ve just been eating out with people that happen to book unusually late…